I like a loser? Afraid?! 10 points best answer?

Ok so I have a crush on a boy who is a loser ? And I known sound like a wanna e for sayin that I am popular and I don't wanna loose my popularity because of me liking this boy a lot. If he asks me out and I say yes then my popularity level will go down or what ever. Also his ex girlfriend is a girl I use to make fun of so if I date her ex she's going to take total advantage of that. I know I sound like a bxtch and sorry for that but instead of trying to insult me can you please just help me? Thanks yu <3