Am I a loser for wanting it so bad? Feelin' desperate.?

I am a 16 yr old female. I will be 17 in two months. I have never had a boyfriend and I have never had my first kiss. I think about having a bf, kissing, and even sex all the time. However I'd just like to get the first kiss thing out of the way but I have trouble talking to guys without being weird about it and they never rlly talk to me or hit on me. It makes me feel like a loser even my 13 and 15 yr old cousins have been kissed. I'm very pretty ppl tell me all the time so what could it be? :(